Far From The Madding Crowd - Thomas Hardy

This good-fellowship―camaraderie―usually occurring through similarity of pursuits, is unfortunately seldom superadded to love between the sexes, because men and women associate, not in their labours, but in their pleasures merely. Where, however, happy circumstance permits its development, the compounded feeling proves itself to be the only love which is strong as death―that love which many waters cannot quench, nor the floods drown, beside which the passion usually called by the name is evanescent as steam.